Consider a Little Radical Behavior:
Good Morning all you pre-Christmas survivors out there in shopping land; your King of Simple News is on the air.
Well, this is the last shopping day before Christmas, a condition that I take great pleasure in observing.
The end of yet another year is upon us and for many of us oldsters, the possibility of the year 2000 actually coming, was akin to Buck Rogers and imaginary space ships; it was fun to think about, but would never actually materialize. Now, I find it difficult to get my mind around the fact that the year 2000 is nearly ten years past! The point of my rambling is to remind all of us how fast our lives pass.
In my book, I made note that if a person had an hour glass that sat on the breakfast table, and if the sand in that hour glass represented the individual total time that we have here on planet earth, we would live our lives much differently.
As we watched the sand surrender to gravity each morning while we sipped our morning coffee and tea, it would be a subtle reminder that we better get to living and doing the things that make us happy before the last grain dropped from the upper chamber.
We would consider whether or not we really enjoyed our present lives or whether we were just marking time waiting for someone else to make our lives better. Barrack Obama for instance.
Do you enjoy your work? Do you enjoy the area of the country where you currently live? Do you have hobbies and activities that you enjoy when not at work? Do you absolutely live for the weekends? If you answered NO to any of the first three questions or YES to the last, consider that you have limited time to change those answers. The sand is running out and Barrack Obama ain’t the answer. Nor was George Bush, or Bill Clinton, or Ronald Reagan, or Jimmy Carter.
Most of us will have some down-time during Christmas and New Years to consider the above questions; and I recommend doing so. It’s during some quiet down time that our minds and thoughts are clearest. Life is short; don’t waste it attempting to climb an impossible mountain.
The word radical gets a bum rap as it is normally associated with bad behavior. But radical is often the only type of action that will get the job done.
I often use analogies from my flying days to better explain the points or views that I’m trying to make. If a pilot starts out on a 3 hour trip with 4 hours of fuel on board and inadvertently allows a stiff crosswind to drift him off course a hundred miles or so toward a place called ‘Nowhere’, there are two choices. 1. Make a radical course correction and go directly to the destination where he can make a safe landing. 2. Don’t do anything radical that would upset the passengers. Allow them to enjoy the flight until such time that you all go down together.
I have always been intrigued by people who make radical changes in their lives. The doctor who suddenly decides to be a fishing guide, because that was always his passion. The New York City or Los Angeles dweller that twists off and moves to a remote area because they were never happy in the city. The person who goes to the corner store one night and never returns, secretly changing their life and locale.
Radical can be good behavior if it makes you happy. But we are told that such radical behavior is…well… irresponsible, stupid, ridiculous, throwing your whole life away. But then, come to think of it; it is your life.
Have a wonderful Holiday Season and rethink radical. Live simple, live free, and live well.

I have been termed a radical ever since I can remember. The context this word used for me, has usually been fairly negative. Typically, the negative views were due to the fact that many of the choices I’ve made are not the norm; not what everyone else does. I have sure had a lot of chances to have more fun than I ever could have imagined years ago. I’ve also had opportunities to really screw things up in my life, but the choices were still mine. And without those screwups, I most likely would not been afforded all those truly amazing experiences that I look back on with great fondness today.
I became distracted many years ago and pursued a life that did not suit my character. Now that I have a clear understanding of what I require for happiness, I choose work I enjoy, friends that are fun to be around and an area to live that is near heaven; for me. Each of us are different, but we still have the freedom of choices that can and will make a huge difference in our lives. Enjoy this Christmas season and reflect on the things that make your life special to you and those around you and then pursue those needs with a vengence. -bb
Billyb,
Thanks for sharing…excellent advice.
We often imagine that there are rules of conduct, that in reality, don’t exist. They are self imposed rules that society and government primes us for in order to keep this impossible show on the road until the wheels come completely off.
“When you find that you are on the wrong train, get off at the next station; it’s a much shorter trip back home.”
Re: “…rules that society and government primes us for…”.
You’ve got that right. The leadership in North Korea must gaze with envy at the USA, and the brainwashing job that government and the mainstream media have done.
I’m reminded of the old cold war era joke about the Russian and American diplomats having lunch together one day. Dmitri, the Russian, says to Frank, the American, “Frank, ‘you know what the difference is between the USA and the Soviet Union? The people in the USA believe their government’s propaganda.”
Mike,
Thanks for pointing out the passage of time. I too, remember looking forward to the turn of the century and now it is a distant memory.
It is my opinion that radicals are the only agents of positive change as everyone else would like to continue the status quo, because the status quo is either profitable or comfortable.
There is a saying I heard years ago that I use as guidepost and it is this: “The conventional wisdom is almost certainly wrong”. This is especially true for attempting to find personal happiness. What everyone else tells you the formula for happiness is, is wrong. You have to keep searching on your own and unfortunately, your personal formula may change as time passes.
Whatever your religious beliefs (or non-beliefs) are, I want to thank you Mike and everybody else on this site and wish you all a Merry Christmas and a truly Happy New Year.
Hi Mike,
Thanks for a truly beautiful column today!
Right after reading your words, I came to this passage in “Unfinished Business”:
“It doesn’t matter what others think of you if you are fulfilling your life’s purpose…You must not try to be like others. Be original. Speak differently, act differently, and work differently..”
I have a hunch that those of us participating in this blog are certainly on the radical track, so Merry Christmas to all you simple-living radicals!
Aah yes, the passage of time. A long time ago I read a book entitled “Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience”, by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi. And no, that is not misspelled.
Talk about doing your own thing. I wasn’t required to read the book; in fact, I enjoyed reading it and found it entertaining. However, I know that 99% of the human race would rather have their wisdom teeth pulled than to read this book.
To make a long story short, he found that people are the happiest; by far, when they are completely and totally immersed in what they are doing. This is especially true when it is something they tend to enjoy anyway. Csikszentmihalyi called this experience “flow”. During this type of activity, people are so immersed in what they are doing that they are oblivious to everything around them and have little or no concept of passing time.
Athletes experience this all the time, so do musicians. In fact, we all experience this repeatedly, if only fleetingly.
So what is the key to happiness? Do what you love and get totally immersed in it, regardless of what others think or say. Be so completely involved that time stands still. During this time you won’t have a care in the world.
Since we can only live in the present; with the past only a memory and the future but a dream, there isn’t much choice of where to live. We just need to quit listening to what society says and listen to ourselves instead. As Hotrod noted….”conventional wisdom is almost certainly wrong.”
Season’s Greetings to all.
Whoops! I forgot something. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year everyone!
A quick note on Christmas Morning. I was excited that Santa had come during the night as I saw a lot of deer tracks through our back yard. You can imagine my disappointment when I saw a mule deer standing in one set of the tracks!
Merry Christmas everyone and thanks so much for all of your wonderful comments. What a bunch of radicals.
The paragraph below describes what the Lemming Families are doing for Christmas.
The title of the article should have been, “Expectations and Convention - Trump Common Sense and Wisdom.”
Joe Roberts, 59, left a Radio Shack at a mall in Madison, Wis., with a huge smile and the PlayStation3 his teenage son insisted on for Christmas.
He said he delayed making the $300 purchase because of economic concerns. A self-employed designer of manufacturing equipment, Roberts is getting less business every year and his wife might soon lose her job as an office manager.
“I don’t feel good about our outlook,” he said.
Roberts said they nonetheless decided Wednesday to grant their son’s wish, but then learned the video-game system was sold out at Best Buy, Walmart and other stores. Roberts finally connected with RadioShack early Thursday and braved icy roads to buy the store’s last one.